“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” (Proverbs 3:5–6)
As a little girl I presumed that nothing intimidated my dad. He was six feet tall and oversaw his busy haberdashery in Kingston, Jamaica, with a revolver tucked into his waistband for protection against gunmen. If any thing broke, he fixed it. If anyone had a need, he assisted. From my perspective, troubles were scared of him.
Later I discovered that, in fact, he had encountered many challenges that might have crippled a lesser man. He was over nine years old before he met his own father. Then when he turned eleven, my father’s dreams of becoming a physician shattered when the optometrist said, “Take this boy out of school and teach him a trade. He’s going blind!”
At sixteen, my father traveled alone by ship and then train to New York City for a cornea transplant at a time when the procedure was considered experimental surgery. The operation was a huge success, but an onslaught of typhoid fever reversed the outcome. During one feverish episode, as his body reacted violently, my father experienced God’s presence in a life-changing way. For the rest of his life, my dad looked at the world through a deformed cornea and thick-rimmed glasses—but with a crystal-clear passion to love and serve the Lord.
I remember entering the ICU cubicle the morning after my forty-eight-year-old mother suffered a massive stroke that robbed her of mobility on her left side. My father was leaning over her bed, singing softly, “Because he lives, I can face tomorrow. Because he lives, all fear is gone. Because I know, I know who holds the future. And life is worth the living, just because he lives.” That song landed right in my favorite column after that.
I knew that over the next eight years as he painstakingly cared for his wife, my father had staked his life on that song’s message. Verses like Proverbs 3:5–10 defined him. God could be trusted and my dad would not depend on his own wisdom or strength. He had learned early to “be not wise in [his] own eyes; fear the Lord, and turn away from evil” (Proverbs 3:7).
At every opportunity, my father reminded his five children and twenty-one grandchildren: “Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the first fruits of all your produce. . . Do not despise the Lord’s discipline or be weary of his reproof. . .Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding, for the gain from her is better than gain from silver. . . . Do not lose sight of these—keep sound wisdom and discretion, and they will be life for your soul and adornment for your neck” (Proverbs 3:9, 11, 13–14, 21–22).
My father never lost sight of these principles. If he were here today, I imagine he would still be instructing all of us to, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart.” Great words, I believe, that only get better as I age.
Elizabeth A Mitchell
(Photo Credit: One of my wonderful siblings. Going to say Souhila Calder to be safe!)
What a Son-filled photo! You have been blessed, and you so faithfully bless us who read your blog.
Lois my friend. How lovely to hear from you. I miss you while you are away
That song makes me weep, how precious was that encouragement to your mom! What a godly man and tremendous leader for you all.
Hello Elizabeth, Such a beautiful picture and testimony of your father’s faithfulness to the Lord and his family. His life was truly a reflection of your Heavenly Father. ❤️
Hi Chrissie. You said that exactly right. Good to hear from you my friend
Thank you ❤️
What a beautiful photograph of you both and what a lovely picture you painted with words of Mr. K as I used to call him. What a godly man he was and he blessed so many of us. There were many nights when he quoted that song ” “Because He lives” as He graciously bore his pain in his last days.
Marie. Thank you for sharing that with me. You were a true blessing to Dad and to all of us!!